how to practice nlp techniques like pacing for nlp persuasion... part IV

Now, what if you do not get any feed back? i mean, you did it all, you
established a real good anchor, you stappled several on each other, and
every time you wanna see if it works you cant tell because you fall
asleep, that is how good it is?

you also anchored in some "enhance my ability to see changes in
physiology" (very good!), but still, your new friends never react. they
do not even ignore your amazing
nlp-manipulation-by-nlp-hypnosis-nlp-technique.

how dare they. it is all their fault, right?

well, of course no. be at cause. what can you do to improve?
Test-Operate-Test-Exit. Noone ever said it is a 4 step process.
(though, believe it or not, I have met a to-be-trainer that wanted to
tell me so)

if you do not get a response, there are at lest 2 areas that you can
work on for improvement:

1.) your perception. at what are you looking? how are you looking? use
Bandlers meta model or grinders clarity model to break it down. if you
are searching for "has fallen asleep" or "has not fallen asleep", think
again.

what else could you look at?

2.) change what you are doing to whome. yes, thats actually two there.
maybe find an easier target. like someone who looks like 10 nights
over. some investment banker e.g. . they always look like either too
little sleep or too much cafe.

2.a.) vary your approach. establish better rapport. cross mirror, so
they do not give you wired looks. check rapport. if good, go ahead, if
bad, improve. find breath-rhythm. pace rhythm. there are actually a
whole lot more things than e.g. body posture or breath that you can use
for pacing, very powerful techniques, but this would blow the frame of
this post.

the next post will be about what else to look for when looking for
effects of your nlp manipulation technique. consider this, by the way,
as a good nlp training. if you do what you read here, you will improve
your abilities in pnl (as the french say) 100folds.

until soon!