Thursday, March 16, 2006

good article to start on nlp logical level (Robert Dilts)

Andy Pols has a blog at

http://www.pols.co.uk/blog/archive/000047.html

, the selcted entry is about his experience at a nlp training seminar
where, if I understand it right, neuro linguistic programming "logical
levels" by Robert Dilts were presented. The name is not mentioned in
the article.

It is a good basic introduction (and it is free, hurray!).

though I have never met Robert B. Dilts personally, I have seen a
number of his videos, and tried to read his books, with some I
suceeded.

He is a master when it comes to rapid trance induction. I am looking
forward to him not only using it to put readers/viewers into an instant
deep trance of bordom, the minute they start to read/listen.

yet another nlp blog

there is yet another nlp blog at

http://www.about-nlp.com/anchoring-nlp.html

, the selected article is a short summary of anchoring *yawn*; - ).

I would like to add that the author does not go into the differences
between operational and classic conditioning, which I think would be
needed to give the readers the opportunity to further research for
themselves, if they want to.

Short one in between

there is a gentleman from Great Britain that has another NLP blog at

http://www.nlp-blog.co.uk/2005/10/persuasion-engineering-different-
way.html

, the selected article is about the persuasion engineering dvd set.

persuasion engineering is, in my opinion, one of the best nlp trainings
you can get. it includes applications such as nlp sales, nlp hypnosis
for sales, criteria elicitation for sales etc etc etc.

i highly recommend that set. and yes, i have it myself. and i was at
the seminar. (just to show that i know what i recommend.)

how to practice nlp techniques like pacing for nlp persuasion... part IV

Now, what if you do not get any feed back? i mean, you did it all, you
established a real good anchor, you stappled several on each other, and
every time you wanna see if it works you cant tell because you fall
asleep, that is how good it is?

you also anchored in some "enhance my ability to see changes in
physiology" (very good!), but still, your new friends never react. they
do not even ignore your amazing
nlp-manipulation-by-nlp-hypnosis-nlp-technique.

how dare they. it is all their fault, right?

well, of course no. be at cause. what can you do to improve?
Test-Operate-Test-Exit. Noone ever said it is a 4 step process.
(though, believe it or not, I have met a to-be-trainer that wanted to
tell me so)

if you do not get a response, there are at lest 2 areas that you can
work on for improvement:

1.) your perception. at what are you looking? how are you looking? use
Bandlers meta model or grinders clarity model to break it down. if you
are searching for "has fallen asleep" or "has not fallen asleep", think
again.

what else could you look at?

2.) change what you are doing to whome. yes, thats actually two there.
maybe find an easier target. like someone who looks like 10 nights
over. some investment banker e.g. . they always look like either too
little sleep or too much cafe.

2.a.) vary your approach. establish better rapport. cross mirror, so
they do not give you wired looks. check rapport. if good, go ahead, if
bad, improve. find breath-rhythm. pace rhythm. there are actually a
whole lot more things than e.g. body posture or breath that you can use
for pacing, very powerful techniques, but this would blow the frame of
this post.

the next post will be about what else to look for when looking for
effects of your nlp manipulation technique. consider this, by the way,
as a good nlp training. if you do what you read here, you will improve
your abilities in pnl (as the french say) 100folds.

until soon!

Using NLP hypnosis to become ambidextrous faster

I will continue the public-transport-pacing-mind-chain soon, here
something else:

http://traevoli.com/ambidex.php

is an interesting page about a guys way to becoming ambidextrous, i.e.
he can write or anything else with his left and with his right hand.

one of the most challenging things to learn when doing that is, as he
writes, learning to write.

one way to write is an old greek method where one write a line forward,
with the right hand, and then one line mirrored backwards, with the
left hand.

now, i am pretty sure it could take some time to learn that. how to
speed it up? easy: go to level, i would suggest at least alpha brain
wave, bring up your timeline, thank Mr. James for his somewhat not so
bad book, even though he did not come up with the concept himself, and
begin a visualisation of you, writing.

then, mirror that visalisation and transfer the VAKOG from the one side
of your body to the other. hypnotically manipulate, if you will, the
knowledge for writing in that style into your other body half, and when
you have it, go into time distortion and plant that experience in every
second of the last, say, twenty years.

as you do so, realize what you did learn by doing so, all the
learning... more and more... now... see you ability growing better and
better as time passes by... feel it growing better and better... hear
it growing better and better...

if you are trained in DHE(tm) (Design Human Engineering) or NHR(tm)
(Neuro Hypnotic Repatterning- both developments of Dr. Bandler)
ncNLP(tm) (new code NLP- here I mean specifically the somewhat new
hypnotic inductions by Dr.Grinder) or Mesmerism, apply all your
knowledge to this induction.

In short: Shot at it with all you have. Then install it into your
future, basic time line therapy process, even better would be the time
line process John LaValle usually teaches nowadays, as of fall 2005.

Doing so will improve your learning and shorten it by, conservativly
speaking, at least 50%. Probably a lot more, if you add in proper
visualisations.

Manipulation can be so much fun, especially when it is used to improve
yourself. Dr.Bandler once said in a seminar "And the guy said: You are
wired. And I said: HA, you have no idea how true that is."

This is how i see it too: Ambidextrousity may look wired to other
people, but as long as you do not bother their freedom with it, who
cares!

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

how to practice nlp techniques like pacing for nlp persuasion... part III

so, how to drop people you do not even know and never have met before into a trance while not talking to them in a public place where everyone can see and "catch" you, doing wired manipulation and hypnosis things to total stranger?

gush... i feel so motivated after that sentence, dont you?

i mean, lets face it: if you can do it there, in a matter of minutes, you probably will be able to do it everywhere.

but how? easy. just as every real good trainer will tell you (and there are a lot of bozos out there, trust me, i went to most): to drop someone into a good trance: go first!

so: set yourself a nice little deep trance anchor, also named "the nlp technique of chaining a 5 ton rock to your right leg, walk over to that cliff and hold it just where it doesnt yet fall over".

then: go into your public transport, sit down where you have spotted a victim and establish rapport, also named "handcuffing that poor fellow to your chain".

then: give that rock that little loony toons poke, so it falls over, and enjoy the ride.

notice if your new friend goes with you. there will be cues to see, but i do not mean eye accessing cues, meta programm accessing cues or submodality changes at this point. no real nlp techniques needed, apart from one: watching.

if his head slumps down in no time flat- write me how you did it.

if he starts to blink and suddenly looks really tired- very good!

if he starts to move to kind of wake up again *chain pulling him down* and yawns- stand up, walk over, shake his hand enthusiastically and say "sir, i just put you in a deep altered state by not touching, talking or looking at you, and i just wanted to thank you for letting me practice my manipulation tricks on you."

if nothing happens- T.O.T.E. you tested, nothing happened- whats next? operate!

more on this soon.

how to practice nlp techniques like pacing for persuasion... part II

So, back with more to come.

NLP Rapport is really about Pacing and Leading. Once you know how to pace someone through their reflection in the window, start trying to lead them.

But how am I gonna do that? Come on, start your cerebral engines: Once you have a good feeling of rapport, you just simply scratch your nose. or your ear. And then you wait for the correct time frame for the answer. (That time frame is scientifically proven, and can be learned in every real good nlp training. i personally recommend only a few people like Dr. Bandler or Dr. Grinder or John LaValle. If you wanna have my recommendation on your region of the world, I will be happy to help.)

Even more fun is it to create rapport and then drop them into a deeeeeeeep trance within several minutes.

More on how to do that soon.

how to practice NLP techniques like pacing for persuasion in every day like

Have you ever sat in the sub or bus and wondered how to use your time more profitably?

I mean yes, reading is fine, but there is so much there one can do, it is a whole training-ground in and of itself, why not use this great resource?

One great way is the following: You know how to pace, right? And you might have heard about the somewhat advanced technique of pacing the breath rhythm of your opposite.

Well, next time you wanna use this nlp technique to practice your nlp persuasion techniques, use the time you spend in public transport!

How? Simple! Look out of the window, and find the reflection of someone who sits close to you in the window. Look at them, but not in the eyes but at their shoulders, their belly, their chest (in a non-please-slap-me-lady-way) and practice seeing their breathing. look at how their shoulders move.

Even easier: Find someone who is talking. You can then hear and see when you are breathing in (though some people simple never breath in- i know, they always sit down next to me and get out their 3G phone and start a loud video call)

I will further elaborate on this in the next posts.

read u soon!