how to use the nlp technique of pacing criteria covertly in your writing

did you know that you can use the nlp technique of pacing criteria
covertly and without knowing them?

how? well, first, lets look at what is different when writing something
for a group of people, as compared to pacing someone you are
communicating with right now.

when writing, you have no way of interaction what so ever. it is a one
time, one way , you say something and it sticks there, thing.

people read it. but they do not say "yes, but..." in the middle, they
cant interrupt you. so how can you still pace their criteria?

by chunking up. first step as always: know thy context.

within the context, pace. e.g. do not talk about "working with people",
rather talk a level up, about "the thing that is most important to you
in your work".

second criteria? e.g. , within the context of selling an nlp training
"what is the second most important thing..." or "and what is the most
important thing, right after that one?"

noone says you cant mix this technique with milton patterns.
example:"as you come to think about the most important criteria for you
in all this, you really begin to find out more and more that you want
to send patrick all the money you have right now."

"isnt it easy to simply let go of that credit card number? just type
the number 10.000 into that field and click send, and it will only be
moments before you feel better and better..."

i think i just got carried away with this.

is this actually interesting for you? if so, let me know, and i will
post more on it. a friend asked me to write an article on how to use
nlp for web page or home page design, and how to use subtile
manipulation in home pages. is that of interest?

let me know. pac1 a t g m x d o t a t is the place to send your
feedback.

in the next entry, i will tell you more about applications of milton
patterns in business contexts.

keep evolving!

free lessons in neuro linguistic programming - how to use the nlp technique of chunking in braingstorming

when brainstorming, you generally want to come up with a lot of
solutions for a certain situation.

osborn did the world a great favor by writing down how to do it, and
the NLP founders an even greater when eliciting the creative process of
walt disney. (thought this could have been done by dilts too, I am not
100% sure about who is the source.)

once you are brainstorming, use the techniques of chunking up, down and
lateral to get still more and different solutions, is a specific
pattern. go up, then lateral, then down, then down, then lateral, then
up, then up, then lateral... and on and on, in a quick step of
creativity: - )

you will constantly come up with new ideas, best would be to have a
recording device close, so you do not loose any item.

one of the next entries will be about how to use nlp hypnosis on your
boss.

keep evolving!

how to trigger an NLP anchor and use a pattern interrupt with the blink of an eye

no, my mother tongue is not english, but i do know that i did mean
"with the blink of an eye" and not "within the blink of an eye" or "in
the ..."

howthehelltchadothat?

Well, you USE A F****** ANCHOR! - )

anchor the stacked anchors to a visual input, e.g. a certain way of
blinking your eye. test and tweak it.

then, when time has come to use your NLP technique of "using
freefloating anchors to stack them onto each other and do a pattern
change and thus a covert behaviour change" (patent pending), fire it
off.

do i say it is easy? well, depending on the point of view, yes.
depending on your level of skill, you might wanna start small.

and i do not say "level of experience", as i know some really
experienced NLPists, who do a lot wrong, for quite some time now.

in the next session, i will show you how to use the NLP technique of
chunking to come up with new ideas in a brainstorming.

keep evolving!

how to do the NLP technique of pattern interrupt to change behaviour covertly

after you have found a real good anchor of someone, freefloating
around, you can go ahead and use it to change certain behaviour
patterns "on the run".

here is the how: stack the good anchor with a lot of good, and if I say
good, I do not mean good, but I mean goooooooooooooooooooood as in
60-days-of-sunshine-and-making-love-with-your-number-one-on-a-hot-
caribean-beach, so I say really goooooooooooooooooooood other anchors.

elicit them by going in the direction where you found the other anchor.

once you have them, and you hit the pattern to change, trigger the
stacked anchors, all at once. that way, the person will not be able to
do anything but burst into loughter while halfway into the pattern.

what happens? the pattern gets a reframe, and most probably are very
thorough one.

in the next entry, you will learn how to do the above with the blink of
an eye.

How to practice using NLP(tm) Anchoring in every conversation persuasivly

NLP(tm) Anchors are all around us.

The new commercial you are saying bad things about to your friend, the
way a lady across the room plays with her hair, or in song texts like
"We all live in a yellow ...", or the sound that your mail program
makes when you get a new email.

They are there all the time, for the simple reason that they are the
reason why our brain works the way it does work.

The question is: How can you use "freefloating anchors" as John LaValle
calls them?

How can you practice the NLP(tm) technique of Anchoring in everyday
life?

Easily.

E.g.: You are having a conversation with a friend via skype. You talk
about this and that, suddenly your friend bursts into loughter about a
think you said that you didnt even intent to be funny.

There is anchor created right there, by the way you said it, the way
you spelled it, the way you took breaks in between the phrases.

You can test it by trying to reuse it. Not to often of course, as you
might collaps it then, but you can do so easily.

in the next entry, I will tell you how to use "freefloating anchors" to
do a covert pattern interrupt, basically nlp hypnosis, but covertly.

another NLP(tm) and Poker article

yet another NLP(tm) poker article at

http://www.pokerology.com/articles/mindcontrol.htm

freedom of opinion. interesting stance, another application of the nlp
technique anchoring in poker.

kindest.

Further resource on NLP and Poker

a ggod article about nlp accessing cues, and a short mention of nlp and
poker can be found at

http://www.nlpschedule.com/random/police-interrogation.html

until soon.

how to practice nlp techniques like pacing for nlp persuasion... part V

so, onwards. what else can you be looking for, when searching for the
effects of your nlp hypnosis-by-not-speaking-or-looking-at-the-person?

again, consider this a nlp training. there are tons of ways to tell if
you are having an effect.

e.g.:
look at the mimics. are they suddenly getting less tense, or more tired
by expression?

look at the eyes. how is the area around the eyes? tense? totally
relaxed as if they would be day dreaming?

if you already can, look at the eye dillation, at the diameter of their
pupils. now this is really advanced, as most people starting with neuro
linguistic programming do have problems with this when looking straight
at someone, but never the less, it is absolutly possible. does the
diameter suddenly increase? it could also be a change in lighting
conditions, so be sharp.

look at their body posture. strictly, we do not read body language in
neuro linguistic programming. there are some NLP people who teach
different topics, and though I have written an article about in which
situations i would recommend to also rely on body language, i have not
yet finished my research in this field as to have an opinion I would
want to be as public as this blog.

there are also a number of nlp seduction products out there that talk
about body language, but I would not trust the professionality of some
of those.

in general, as a hint: look for congruent patterns. e.g.: if you are
trying to trance someone out, look not only at their body posture, but
at their breathing, their mimics, their facial expression, all of it.

that way you might find cues that help you.

how to use the nlp(tm) technique of anchoring in poker

a short idea on how to use nlp(tm) anchoring in poker.

poker is a little like seduction. you have to seduce people to trust
you.

you have to lie so good, they believe you. they think you are telling
the truth.

i love poker, especially holdem, because the outcome is so measurable.
if you are good, you get money. if you should improve, you have a
financial interest in doing so.

now, how to use anchoring in poker? just one example:

when you show a hand, a really good hand like two aces, mark them with
an anchor, e.g. a tap on the table. a specific sound you make. a sudden
change in your body posture. something repeatable.

poker players are always searching for patterns in the behaviour of
others, so why not give them something to use, and induce the need for
a nlp training in their thinking? - )

seduce them to thinking that you, the neuro lingusitic programmer gave
away a tell.

maybe they are not getting it right away, so be a little obvious.

then, next time you are in the need of them believing you have a good
hand, trigger the anchor.

again, maybe be a little obvious.

simple. right? try it out. try some variations and let me know which
other applications you found for nlp anchoring in poker.

in the next entry, we will go into using pacing for nlp poker
seduction: - )

until soon!